Why Does a Man Say He Wants a Woman’s Baby If They Are Lovers?
August 4, 2009
Psychology behind this wonder?
Why does a man tell a woman, that he’s just met, that he wants her baby?
Is it a primal instinct sort of thing to say while having sex? Even if it’s sex with someone you’ve just met?
Here’s a scenario: You meet a guy a few times and have a sexual relationship, meaning see each other only a few times, total. So not really a relationship, but a lover. And then he says one night while devouring each other, he wants your baby. Why would that be? Male perspective?
It’s just a curious question in life of mine. I’ve heard of ‘girls’ who have heard not once, but twice in a situation like this. Odd? For some reason I don’t think he really does in these cases? Thoughts? Flatter her? Why?
I’m going to go with flattery on this one. The baby reference is telling the woman that she’s smoking hot…so much so he “wants her baby” (not thinking about the fact that those cute little babies are sex-enders for mom and dad.)
That’s what I was thinking. I couldn’t think of anything else that made sense, since as you mentioned or alluded to, babies are quite serious, and –someone may be offended by this– but can kill a relationship, or so I’ve seen, and heard. Not so smoking hot–a whaling baby!
Thanks for input from males perspective!
That stumps me, do these men know how stupid that sounds. Socially unaware most likely. don’t let it bother you.
Yes. It stumps me too. I was thinking maybe it’s instinctive-primitive sort of a thing? Like a man is meant to pro-create, as is a women, in the ‘old days.’ So I guess a guy could have a tourette moment while having sex with a ‘decent’ looking girl. Maybe?
I don’t let it bother me. I was just curious what some males had to say about the behavior. It struck me as odd as one could become and then what? Have an abortion because one’s too–not ready to have a child, and the man was a nameless face? Well then that would ruin the whole moment of ‘I want your baby’ during passionate sex now wouldn’t it. More like I’m on a killing spree, can I have ur baby? No, that may be going a bit too far!
Hope I didn’t lose you!
As always, it’s been a pleasure!
I’m in that situation now…and although I really want a baby myself, I think its too soon. We’ve only been seeing each other since August, my family hates him, and there is a definite language barrier. I do know he lost his first love of 7 years in a car crash a few years ago. I’m not sure if he says he wants me to have his baby because he’s afraid of loosing me too, or he just wants to piss off my folks. He also calls me his wife which seems odd even for an old school Polish man.